Amillati & Co

You were never meant to be just one thing.

Successful on paper. Restless underneath. That’s usually where this starts. Executive and transformation coaching for the leap you haven’t named yet, from someone who has made it.

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Vitruvian · the foundation Move across the figure

“You’ve done what you set out to do. The title, the number, the outside markers. And still, a question you don’t quite say out loud: is this it?”

That’s not failure. In my experience it’s usually the start of the most interesting chapter, if you’re willing to look at it honestly.

Who I am

I coach the transition I’ve actually made.

I spent more than twenty years in global banking before I left. Not in crisis, but because “successful on paper” had stopped being enough.

What came next was a real reinvention: coaching, writing, community, and a training habit I still keep. I race, and my endurance is still a work in progress. I say that on purpose.

That’s the whole difference.

In banking

years, global, corner office and all

Since

Coaching,consulting,writing,community.

Body. Spirit. Mind.

The thread running under all of it

Body

What you do with the physical self. Training, food, rest, the discipline that holds everything else up.

Spirit

The part that asks why. Older than any of us, and worth deferring to rather than explaining away.

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Mind

Clarity under pressure. Not optimisation, but the ability to hear your own thinking again.

How we work

Two ways in.

1:1 coaching

Private, unhurried work on what comes next.

Leadership, wellbeing, purpose, reinvention. Held together, not traded off against each other.

Small group

The Mirror Room.

Three or four peers over eight weeks who become your mirrors. Honest reflection, not a lecture from the front.

Client story

One reinvention, start to finish.

K came to me in Hong Kong carrying a question she hadn’t said out loud. She now lives in Tokyo, runs a business of her own, and has joined a company in an industry she’d never worked in. None of that was the plan when we started.

“I thought I was deciding whether to move. I was deciding whether I was allowed to want it.”
“He never told me what to do. He just wouldn’t let me keep the question vague.”

K · Hong Kong, now Tokyo

Neither is a programme with a guaranteed outcome. Both are a way of seeing more clearly.

The work

One person, several rooms.

Coaching

The front door. One to one and small group, for people carrying a question they haven’t said out loud yet.

Consulting

More than twenty years of commercial judgement brought to the problem rather than the personality. For teams and founders who need the other kind of help.

Writing

Essays on transition, practice, and the things worth deferring to. Published openly, written for one reader at a time.

Community & Charity

The work that isn’t billed. Rooms, causes and people worth putting time behind.

About

The longer version. Where this came from, what changed, and what I’m still working on.

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Who this is for

You’d rather be challenged than flattered.

Successful by every external measure and quietly asking “what now?” You’d rather be challenged than flattered, and you’re ready to do the work rather than buy the answer.

And who it isn’t for

Held for now. The line that says who this is not for sits on the coaching page.

Let’s talk.

Just a conversation, to see whether this is right for you, and whether I’m the right person to walk beside you a while.

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